, X HO Y . : Y , : 1 want to leave home but my father is sick. , , , , : I want to leave home. I can't leave home because my father is sick and I don't . , . , . , : Y, , : Y "... ", , X, Y . : (1) ".. ." -- {I can't} If (my father is sick), then ({ } leave home) {I don'tl ( ), ( ) { - } (2) "", "" If (my father weren't sick), then {I can't} ({ } not leave home) {I don't} ( ), ( ) . , : If (my father weren't sick), then {I can't} ({ } leave home) {I would} ( ), . . 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(), (), . , , , , . , : : (211) Everybody in the group think that I'm taking up too much time. , . , , . , , . (212) Henry is angry at me. . (213) Martha touchend me on the shouler. . (214) I'm sure she liked your present. , . (215) John told me he was angry. , . (216) I know what makes him happy. , . (217) I know what's best for you. , . (218) You know what's I'm trying to say. , . (219) You can see how I feel. , . , , - . , (220) If she loved me, she would always do what would like her to do. , , , . (221) I'm disappointed that you didn't take my feeling into account. , . -- - -- . , - , , , . , , / . , - , . , , . , , : . , , (- ), , . - , , , , . , , , . . . , - , , , "" - . , , , , , . , , , . , , , -- , , . , , . , , , , . , , . , , , . , , . : .: Henry maces me angry. . .: How, apecifcally, does Henry make you angry? ? .: He never conssides my feelibge. . , , : () What feeling, apecifcally? ? () How do you mow that he never considers your feeling? , ? (), : .: Because he stays out so late every night. . , , : (a) Does Henry's staying out at night always make you angry? , , ? () Docs Henry's staying out at night always mean he never cosiders your feeling? , , , ? . , ; , , . , : (222) It's wrong to hurt anyone's feeling. . , ; , , . , , . , , , . , . : (223) I say to you that it's wrong for me to hurt anyone's feelings. , . , , (. , /970) (224) I say to that S- / , S. S -- . , , . , , . , , , , . , , , , , , , , , , . , , , , . , , , . , , , , . , , , , . -, , . : , , , , , , , (, , : ..., , ... -, , . . , , , " ". . , , , , . , , , . , , , , . , , , , . 6 . , , , . , . . , , , . , , -- , . , . , . , , . , . 4. . , . , , , , , , , . 4 1. , (3), , (31), (30) (31) -- . 2. , : What would happen if failed to take other people's feelings into account? , ? , : One must lake other people's feelings into account - . one must take. one . , -- -- "". "". 3. , . , , , , . : - : It is not possible It is necessary to not be afraid to be afraid. . . 4. , , , , , . , - "" - " " , " " "" . . 5. , , : Y XvY -X--Y XvY X--Y v -- -- -- . 6. , , , , (see McCawlev, Lacoff, Grinder and Postal ), . 7. , , , , , , . , , : 1: X, HOY 2: X X, Y 3: X, Y 4: Y X. , " " "", 3 4 -- . 5 () . , . , , , . , , . , , . , . . , . , , , . , , , , , . , , . , , , , , , , . , , -, , , , . , , , , , , .[1] , , , , , , , . , . -, , , , , , , , , . , , , , . . . 1 , 34 , . , . : (1) Well...I'm not realy sure... ... , ... , . , , ( , ). , . , , (""), , "" , (1). , , , : ", . , I'm sure of answer. . "" , : - ( ""), , ( ""). , , , , , , -- . , (2) .: You'are not sure of what? He ? . (3) R.: I'm not sure that this will be heipful. P.: , . , , . , , : () (), will be helpful (), . (6) , helpful () . You're being helpful lo me. . helpful , , , , - ; () helpful . , . , , : 1. You're not sure that what, specifically, will be helpful? , ? 2. -- / ? 3. , -- ? You're not sure what, specifically, will be helpful to whom? , ? (1) (2) . (5) R.:-Well, I'm not sure lhat thus experiment will be helpful. You see, when I first went to Dr., he asked me if I'd be willing to participale in this experiment.. .and well, I feel that there's something I really need help wilh but this is Just an experimenl. P.: , , . , ., , ... , , -, , . , , , , . , , : () "", "". , -- , , , ; () "" ( " "); () , " -- ; () "-", ; () "" "", : , , , ; () , "" , (); () "X, Y" -- . , , , - ( -- " -, ") -, (Y -- " "); (6) How will Ihis just being an experiment preveni you from getting The help you need? , , , ? (). (7) Experiments are for research, but there's something I really need help with. , -, . , "X", "\". , : () , " ; () "" -- , , , , ; () "-", ; () "" . (8) .: What, specifically, do you really need help with? ? , (). (9) R.: I don't know how to make a good impression on people. , . , , , "-", . (). "" -- , ; () "" " " " Y", " -- , a Y , , , , ; () "" ; () , , -, . , , , , , . , , . Let me see if I understand you -- you are saying that this being just an experiment will necessarily prevent you from finding out how to make a good impression on people. Is that true? , . , , , , , . ? . , . , . , , , , . , . (11) R.: Well, ...I'm not really sure... ,... ... ; . (12) .: () Well, are you willing to find out? , ? , / ( : Well, I'm not really sure... ..., ... , . , . (13) n.:Yeah,o.k. , . . (14) .: Who, specifically, don't you know how to make a good impression on? , ? "" " ". (15) .: Well, nobody. . , . "" , , (: -- ). , , . : () , () . (1) .: Nobody? Can you ihink of anybody on whom you have ever made a good impression? ? -, - ? , , , , - . (17) R.: Ah, mmm... yeah, well, some people, but... ... , , , ... , - : () ; () , "", (disqualify) , . Now then, whom, specifically, don't you know how to make a good impression on? , , : , ? , , : (19) R.: ...I guess what I have trying to say is that women don't like me. ... , , . , " , " " ". : () : ; () , , , , . , , "", -- , (20) .: Which woman, specifically? ? (21) .: Most women I meet. , . ,